Richard Weissbourd on “I hate you!”

Kids will "go through moments when they are really angry and hate their parents," says Harvard psychologist Richard Weissbourd. But saying it doesn't make it OK.

More videos! Watch below to learn how other experts suggest you
respond when your child says such bruising words.

Christine Carter Christine Carter: Even though "they
don’t mean it … it can still be hurtful."

John Duffy John Duffy: “Usually when a child says this … they mean something different.”

Erica Reischer Erica Reischer: Understand that there’s a big difference between feelings and behavior.

Madeline Levine Madeline Levine: "Disagreement is accepted. Disrespect is not."