Christine Carter on “I don’t want to go to school!”

Raising Happiness author Christine Carter says the secret isn't to elevate the drama. For better results, do this instead.
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Deborah Tillman
The star of America’s Supernanny tells parents that unless it’s a special case, they need to use a tough-love approach when kids voice this complaint. Format: Article
 

Jane Bluestein
The author of The Win-Win Classroom says too many adults respond in the worst way possible. Here’s how to do better when your child comes to you with school refusal. Format: Article
 

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Sh*tty Mom
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Jane Healy
If parents hear this repeatedly, the bestselling author of Your Child’s Growing Mind says they need to spring into action and do these two things. Format: Article
 

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