11/10/2009:
"Like many things in life it depends on the teacher and her previous
expereince with classroom volunteers. Also on the support or lack thereof
from her principal. There jobs are tough enough and sometimes they feel
like its just another set of eyes critiquing her/his every move. Be
willing to help outside of class. Perhaps making copies in the prep room,
cutting/sorting at home. Or just purchasing some supplies or helping with
field trips. I know I have been a distraction in class by no fault of my
own. Its just the nature of kids to want to engage a nice adult. If you
are shut out all together then time for Advocate Mom to put on her cape
and start asserting her rights ever so slyly.Know your school board policy
and see if its conducive for home/school callaboration if not, let your
school board know, it time for change."
10/8/2009:
"I am a parent and a teacher. Whe a parent volunteers the same class every
time, every week, creates a rupture with the class flow, and the students
loose instructional focus. Voulunteering once in a while is healthy but
doing it all the time id definitely not. I know as parents we can learn a
lot from our children's teachers, but we have to aim for the best for the
class, and not only what we, as a parents, can gain. Be considerate with
the teachers."
09/21/2009:
"Seems to me that primarily the private schools don't allow parent
volunteers in the classroom. If this is the case, maybe the mom should
question why they are so secretive, and seek a public school that welcomes
involvement and constructive criticism, and whose curriculum is based on
time-tested standards rather than suspicion of parental oversight (or
parents pulling students or suing?)"
09/18/2009:
"Yes, I volunteered just Monday, and I saw an improvement with my
daughter's conduct, she's a big talker, 2nd grade, but it does help and
the other children kind of watch you, as a parent when they want to get
out of hand. It's also nice to see what the teacher teaches them and how
the circulum goes in class. I suggest to parents to find a little time at
least 2 times a months to go and assist in your childs classrooms so you
wont be too surprised when things come up."
09/18/2009:
"I do it once a week and only work with the P.E. teacher. I don't go into
classrooms only P.E. class. I help around and walk the halls making sure
kids aren't messing around.I wish I could do more but they have rules and
I must follow. But I really wish parents knew there kids... man some just
make it so not worth the pay. I feel for them but thats their job, just
like a stripper you know what you're getting into. Oh and I hate the
parents how just drop off the kids and expect the teacher to make them
good people."
09/18/2009:
"If your child's school doesn't allow volunteers in the classroom, you
might consider helping with an after school activity or chaperone on a
field trip. You might even volunteer for lunchroom/recess duty. Most
teachers won't turn down the help if you do what they ask you to help
with, not take charge and do your own thing. Usually schools that do not
allow you to volunteer in your child's class does that to eliminate those
parents who will focus on their child's needs only."
09/18/2009:
"The sad truth is that the school officials and employees do not want
parents in 'their' schools. Our school system always gave lip service to
'parents are welcome in our schols anytime', but when we actually went
they made it clear we were not wanted. The schools only want parents
there when they need money or labor for specific projects. I am sure
there are some school systems which do welcome parental involvement, but
they are few and far between."
09/18/2009:
"Interesting - many of us have ths same concern! Schools are not letting
parents volunteer in the classroom (I thought it was just my school!).
GreatSchools, can you please address this issue? "
09/18/2009:
"What if you are volunteering but the teachers don't want the help (ie,
don't want parnets in the classroom) and the Principal also is anti-parent
and believes parents don't belong in classrooms?
This is the culture at our -- highly rated -- school. It's frustrating
that I can't be a part of my child's elementary school experience, and
that parents don't really get a glimpse of the classroom dynamics.
What do you suggest?"
09/16/2009:
"I volunteered in my kids' classrooms, and realized how much violence is in
the schools, so thankfully now we are homeschooling. They have grown by
leaps and bounds. (What student wouldn't with one on one.) And they're
now both in the gifted and talented program."
09/16/2009:
"This all sounds great and is the reason why I tried to volunteer in my
childs classroom, but the teachers at her school dont accept parent
volunteers in the classroom! They will let you volunteer in a different
classroom, but not your childs! "
09/16/2009:
"The problem in my child's school in Doral Florida is that parent
volunteers are not allowed in the classroom."
09/16/2009:
"Pls note, that parents should ask how the teacher feels about having
volunteers in the classroom. If parents listen carefully to what and how the
teacher responds, then the answer should be clear. Of course, most teachers
will be polite and not turn down parental help, but try to see beyond the
politeness. The presence of parents can be intruding and can interrupt the
teachers' flow or teaching style. Let us be considerate. As a parent, I
appreciate help sometimes but I would not appreciate my mother-in-law coming
into our home everyday to 'volunteer,� would you?"
09/16/2009:
"I find that being in the class room helps me know what to say at home to
help my kid with homework. Knowing the teachers little saying help alot at
home."
09/16/2009:
"I have a 6th grader. Her middle school doesn't allow alot of parent
volunteering, especially in the classroom. I feel disconnected a bit now.
Other ways to help?
"
09/16/2009:
"I couldn't agree with this article more! You gain so much insight by being
IN the classroom. Everyone benefits. I just wish Middle and even Secondary
schools encouraged/welcomed parent volunteers. Talk about an untapped
resource! As someone who has 'been there and done that' I can't begin to
tell you how my presence at the school helped us stay in touch with what,
and how, our kids were doing. I was so much more a part of their lives in
elementary because of volunteering. Liked it so much, I went on to
substitute teach, which allowed for even greater insight."
09/16/2009:
"I would love to volunteer in my child's classroom but the principal and
teacher's at my daughter's school have made it clear that they don't want
you in the classroom. You are distraction to the students. The only
thing they want you to volunteer for is for parties and fund raisers."