What teachers know
Great tips from great teachers that can make a difference for your child.
By GreatSchools Staff
Roy Hudson on getting teens to like themselves
Position and school: Director of theater, Shades Valley Theatre Academy, Shades Valley High School; Irondale, Ala.
Years teaching: 16
Top teaching boast: Alabama 2009 Teacher of the Year
On being a teacher: "Before I was a teacher, I worked for the Olympics and the PGA, where you better do it right. So when I went to teach school, I had the same approach. I always expect the best from my kids.”
"Adolescence is absolutely the hardest age period for kids. Their hormones are rampant. There’s so much peer pressure and so many influences that don’t have to do with parents — the media, the Internet, Facebook. But kids this age cannot produce anything good if they don’t love themselves. You can see the obvious kids who hate themselves. It’s very important that kids like themselves. Once they do, then everything falls in place.
"As parents, find something special about your child. Then tie that in with something they can get involved with. I suggest to parents: Sign your child up for something. Say to your child, 'Let’s try this. Let’s try that.' Never give up on kids.
"We had a kid whose mother worked in the theater for years. She said, 'I want him to come to the academy. But he can’t sing or dance.' When I met him, he wouldn’t speak or look me in the eye. I said, 'I can’t take him if he can’t speak.' His mother said, 'Let me try with him again.' Finally, he spoke with me, and I said, 'OK, let’s give you a try.' He’s now a sophomore. It turns out he’s brilliant running a light board. We’ve gotten to the point that the kids respect him so much. The other day it was his 16th birthday. The kids brought cupcakes, noisemakers, and grabbed him and put a tutu and crown and Mardi Gras beads on him. They really love him."