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Understanding Girls with AD/HD: Symptoms and Strategies

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By GreatSchools Staff

Help and Hope for Girls with AD/HD

Clearly, better methods for diagnosing and managing AD/HD in girls are needed. Fortunately, many professionals are working toward this goal. They have found, for example, that because a girl's outward behavior can mask her AD/HD, having her answer certain questions (self-reporting) can help make a proper diagnosis. Professionals have also found some methods that are especially effective for managing AD/HD in girls, including:

  • Group counseling with other girls who have AD/HD. This allows girls to support and learn from each other while improving social skills within a peer group.
  • Coaching for AD/HD by a trained adult outside the family. Having a mentor provides support beyond what the girl gets at home and can relieve pressure on her family relationships.
  • Understanding and support from mothers. Mothers who understand the impact AD/HD has on their daughters may be more effective in steering them, not forcing them, toward success.

As professionals pay more attention to the traits and needs of girls with AD/HD, we can hope for earlier diagnosis and more effective treatment. Parents can help by staying abreast of the research in this area - and by staying in close touch with their daughters.

AD/HD by Other Names and Acronyms

While Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (AD/HD) is the official term and acronym used by today's mental health care professionals, it is sometimes referred to by other names and abbreviations. For example, it is sometimes called:

  • ADHD (without the "slash" in the middle)
  • Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD)
  • Attention Disorder


  • Is ADHD More Likely To Affect Movement In Boys Or Girls?, American Academy of Neurology, November 5, 2008.
  • Brain Abnormalities That May Play Key Role in ADHD, Kennedy Krieger Institute, November 18, 2008.
  • Adolescent Girls with ADHD Are at Increased Risk For Eating Disorders, Study Shows, University of Virginia, March 15, 2008.

Comments from readers

"ADHD in boys and girls are kind of the same. ADHD is not gender sensitive, boys and girls can have the disease depending on the risk they have for having it. But I think that it is very hard when you only get to know that you have ADHD at your adolescent age because you might have a hard time coping to it. The situation of ADHD to girls is the same to those of boys but may have a little difference. "
"Thank you so much for this article! The story described my school experiences completely- I could draw you pictures to show you exactly the view from each window, but very little about what I learnt inside the classroom, other than 'it wasn't that interesting/stimulating'. I've also recently been diagnosed with dyslexia, which I found very hard to take on board (I found out in the november before my A levels, and my teacher's attitudes changed dramatically to a 'this girl is obviously stupid why do I bother' (or at least it felt like that), as a result of which I became (more?) depressed and stopped working completely. Thankfully, I got myself out of it and am now a Chemistry student, but still find it hard to sit and work. It is very reassuring to find its not just me who went through this, and to put a face to why I didn't find it easy to make friends. I've been doing a bit of reading around, and it seems fish oil (omega 3) deficiency has something to do with some of the problems. I've been on it for 3! days and already notice a giant difference. Would recommend looking into fish oil supplements- they've helped me enormously!"
"This article is an eye opener! My daughter who is now 11, was diagnosed with combo ADHD when she was 8, but now that she has hit puberity, it has intensified greatly. It is nice to know that this is perfectly normal and will work on finding her a support group. As an adult, I have recently been diagnosed with having ADHD myself. As I read this article, I see myself - suffering silently for years. All those nights I worked on homework for hours and hours, all those relationship problems - it all makes sense now. Thank you!"
"All children adapt differently to a variety of things that happen in their lives. I am a grandmother of 6 children & if you pay really close attention to your children, you notice how they adapt and then you act accordingly . This year, due to 'DRAMA' issues in the Elementary Schools & Middle Schools, my two oldest granddaughters, ages 9 & 14 had asked their Mom, a single Mom, about homeschooling them this year ('08 - '09). We researched and found all kinds of information and began our journey. I must say it has been an experience we will NEVER forget. For those of you that are questioning the homeschool idea...I would NOT recommend that elementary children be homeschooled. They need the social skills and the interaction with other children. My 9 year old granddaughter is AD/HD. She feels she has 'no friends' and becomes angry with herself and with us for making this decision. We realize now that the decision for her was not the right decision. We were not thinking about the! social skills, we were thinking 'academics' only. My 14 year old granddaughter has done very well on the social issue, simply because she is still very active with a few of her good friends from school. I will say that they both maintain an A / B average in all subjects which rarely happened in public school. So, homeschooling can be a really good thing, just remember to think of every aspect, not just the academics side of it. "
"My 'soon to be 16' year old daughter has inattentive add. How can I find a support group as well as a psychiatrist that can prescribe and monitor medication for her? She was taking Concerta but had side effects so she wanted off of it. She is now asking to take another med... how can we find the right support for her?"
"hi i'm a single mother of a very loveable 7 year old girl named selena who loves to play, meet new friends, go out and just have fun but struggles in school and often with her temper. Last year she would tell me how she didn't get along with most of the other kids in her class saying that they would talk about her and not want her to be around them, and that she felt like she just didn't want to be there. Most morning she would fight me to stay home and cry telling me that she feels that the other kids are smarter then her and that no one wants or likes her there which resulted in her being lifted down so she has to repeat the 1st grade again. I think that she is a very loving, sweet, smart child who just wants others to like her, and i've found that what they teach her at school she'll learn faster and get it better when i teach her it at home, plus at school most of the time her teacher would tell me that selena doesn't pay attention, finish her work and is often distracte! d. So i was thinking about homeschooling her and i was wondering if that would be a good thing to do, thank you angela "