How Do I Help My Son Get Organized?
By Debra Collins, Family therapist
I would like to be able to help my son with organizational skills as he has a hard time organizing (especially his desk at school). If there was some way I could help him with organizing that is fun for a kid, this would be great. I think it would take some stress off of him and help him perform better.
I know quite a few adults who are still working on this, as well. What ever method you use, it takes practice, practice, practice. The repetition is what helps form the skill.
Ask his teacher what system of organization teachers use in helping kids with their desks, assignment and homework tracking, school-day schedule, etc. You may be able to use the same techniques at home, and that would reinforce his skills in more than one environment. If what is happening in the classroom doesn't work for him, or can't be duplicated at home, that's OK. You can always start having him organize his workspace and room., When he has those mastered, you can move on to the classroom.
I think children find organizing fun when they get to participate in designing their routine and can take ownership of their process. Let your son figure out with you what works best for him. Ask him what he thinks will help him keep track of his things. Find out if he likes things numbered, color-coded, or written out. What does he best respond to? We all learn differently.
Approach organizing as a fun thing and give him positive feedback for his ideas. Be creative. Maybe the two of you can spearhead a family-organizing activity for your whole household and that way it won't feel to him as though he has "a problem." Maybe you can finally get that one drawer in the kitchen or your closet cleaned up with his help.
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