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Homework case study #4: Disorganization disorder

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By Chris Colin

Hoffman says these issues frequently manifest around seventh grade, when schooling becomes more of an independent process. "Middle school and beyond isn't systemized for students with these issues," he says. "[For] good students who do well, their system is aligned with the structure of the school. Not so when there are executive functioning issues: That's where serious disorganization develops."

Simple steps and big ideas

Hoffman's approach in such cases combines nuts-and-bolts solutions with a whole new approach to talking about the problem.

"With chronic issues like this, the student loses his or her sense of control, and there's an instinct to give up," he says. "One of my first steps is emphasizing what he's doing right. In positive psychology, there's the idea that focusing on the positive will evolve into additional positive experiences. So many of these kids are so often slammed for what they do wrong. So when a kid misses seven assignments but gets one in, you focus on that one — ask what it is they did right in that case, so they can learn from it."

In his twice-a-week meetings with Tim, Hoffman works to create a running conversation about recent assignments that might otherwise just swirl chaotically in Tim's head — or get buried in the stress of discussing them with parents.

"Then it's about concrete things: We get his planner out. We look at what he's written down and discuss what the upcoming assignments are going to be. We discuss what assignments he might've missed. And we've created a running column in his planner: immediate, long-term, and reminders," Hoffman says. "I'm helping him keep lists too. Recently he had to speak to his science teacher, for example. Now he writes that down in his planner because he understands he'd forget to do so otherwise."

That last part is crucial — understanding the problem. Hoffman says this "metacognitive element" is essential to effecting lasting change. By continuously talking things out, students start to recognize their own behaviors. Given the developmental limitations of a young person, that's no small trick, Hoffman says.

What's emerging from these meetings, according to Tim and his mother, are gradual but steady improvements. There haven't been any D's on his report card in a while. He's using a planner now, with an easy-to-use binder system. And he's got something like a mantra that he repeats when a teacher starts describing the evening's homework: Get the assignment in there. Get the assignment in there. It may sound obvious, but when disorganization is an ingrained habit, simplicity is key.

Still, Hoffman sees his students' tasks as about hard-won improvement rather than miraculous transformation. “I don't think they're ever going to transform into incredibly organized people,” he says referring to some of his students. “That's fine. What they can do is develop skill sets to keep their lives in order.”

Chris Colin is the author of What Really Happened to the Class of '93 and writes the "On the Job" column for the San Francisco Chronicle as well as stories for the New York Times, Mother Jones, McSweeney’s Quarterly, and GOOD magazine. He lives in San Francisco with his wife and daughter.

Comments from GreatSchools.org readers

01/23/2012:
"This is me and i am a girl.(most people seem to have this proplem with their sons)I am in 8th grade.I have never been organized but it was not until 2 monthes ago I got the help I needed thanks to my science teacher "
02/22/2011:
"Most school districts provide planners, if not, get one now. My son was very disorganized until third grade when his school district introduced the planner. Now, in seventh grade, he has finally gotten used to writing everything down. He has fine motor issues too and hates to write, so this is a part of his occupational therapy too. I then can help him track and get anything he needs from me signed, etc, on a daily basis, without weeding through the mess of papers."
09/17/2010:
"I came across this by accident. I want to thank you for helping me see what my 12 year old is lacking. I have tried everything I could, with no success. I am going to look into this futher. Many thanks, "
02/2/2010:
"I loved the first line of this article! Too funny -just like my son's backpack. I have just learned about executive functions and am reading a very helpful book called No Mind Left Behind by Dr. Adam Cox PhD which I would also recommend to parents wanting to know more about executive control, especially organization and planning, and how to help their kids get their assignments done etc. I wish more teachers knew about this problem - my son is a good student with no 'attitude' and most of his teachers really like him, but he has a hard time with organization. He doesn't really know how to start and get organized but one teacher really gets mad at him and embarassed him in front of classmates by making 'jokes' about his papers and desk. Fortunately another teacher told me about executive control. All parents who have these issues should learn more - it might be that your child isn't just being a slob because even bright kids can have a really hard time making sense and order out of things. Thanks for this article because more people need to know that executive function problems are very common, but can be helped. Wish we knew about this sooner because we could have spared ourselves and our son a lot of grief. "
01/27/2010:
"I tend to agree with the first poster. Schools are not designed for boys these days at all. Most teachers would much prefer to teach to girls who tend to do what they are told, work on work they are given and actually turn it back it. Sounds pretty easy for many of us, but for many boys this is not working out so well. I think, as society we need to learn how to do better for our boys and not to label them so quickly with disorders such as ADD, ADHD and now 'Disorganized Disorder'."
01/26/2010:
"OMG, I felt like reading about my 7 yrs old 2nd grader. He is smart, but so disorganized and he got upset if something being changed out of his normal ..err..'order'"
01/26/2010:
"Thankyou for this article. I felt like I was reading about my son. We are in counseling and that is an area where the counselor is working with my son because it was war when I tried to help him to be organized."
01/26/2010:
"Tennessee loves to give boys, big and small, 'disorders. It's appaulling. Maybe these schools might get outside of their feminine selves and start accomodating the gender issue instead of finding a 'disorder' or a problem. And be way less anxious to drug these little defenseless boys. Glendale is notoriously anxious to have add and ADHD. I, along with many parents, removed my boy from that very school for that very reason. Wake up Nashville and Tennessee. I don't expect my post will be posted but I'm writing it anyway. Parents be very wary. If your lttle boy is having problems, talk to several other parents of little boys. Be noisy. This is epidemic. And don't take this! Nashville parents It "
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