By GreatSchools Staff
Is homework a struggle at your house? You're not alone. Many parents have been there and wrote to share their advice about what helped end the homework battles with their kids.
Many parents say setting a regular time and routine for homework is crucial.
One parent of a fifth-grader writes: "We pick up our son from school and immediately sit down at the kitchen island to open the backpack, eat a snack and immediately start the homework.
"Our son has been doing this routine since he was in the first grade. As such, on rare occasion when a friend comes home with us after school, the friend has said, 'Bobby, what do you want to do?' My son responds, 'Well, we can do anything but not until we get our homework done.' If ever a routine has established a pattern, this is it.
"One day we were talking about colleges and we said that sometimes you can choose which days to attend classes in college, like Monday, Wednesday and Friday, and when you want to take class, like in the morning or afternoon, or evening. His comment was, 'If I did my homework right after class, then I am free to do whatever I want?'
"Let's hope this thinking pattern for homework is for a lifetime."
"Consistency is the key. Stick with a homework routine," another parent writes in sharing rules that worked for her:
Other parents said changing the scene helped their children focus, particularly as kids get older.
An Illinois mother of a sixth-grade boy and eighth-grade girl writes: "When homework becomes a dreaded chore, I find new places to go and do homework, for instance, Starbucks, the library, a cafe. It's interesting to find that when you offer up a new place to study, homework appears where they said there was none."
"One thing I have done is to take them to the library to do their homework," writes a Colorado mother of three boys, 12, 16 and 20. "There are no distractions from home, and they can focus just on the task at hand. Plus, there are all the available resources we need there. It is especially helpful to get a study room when we can. That way, we can talk and study things without disturbing anyone. The library we go to has white boards in the study rooms, which we have used occasionally just for something different (doing spelling words on it instead of writing them on paper, for example). This seemed to also break up the monotony of the homework ordeal. An added bonus is that our library has a coffee shop inside with Italian sodas, etc. This can be used as an incentive!"
"If there is a project due, we separate it into how much time we have and then do a little each day," one mom writes. "We do the same for a book report. I count the number of pages and divide it by the number of days they have to read it and give them two days to write it. We do a 'sloppy copy' and we do a final draft. ..."
A California mom of a kindergartner writes: "Have short time frames planned out. Kids get restless without breaks. Maybe 15 minutes of work, then a three-minute break.
"Remove any distraction - TV, snacks, cell calls, don't let them think they are missing out on anything by doing homework.
"Reward them if they are focused on any given day.
"Talk about homework as if it is a natural part of your schedule. "Don't say, 'You have to do homework first.' It becomes too much of a task. Say, 'OK, it's homework time. Let's get started.' Always start (at the) same time every day. In that way, they feel it's just what you do, there are no options!"
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