Months before May 6, a.k.a. Teacher Appreciation Day, you watch your child’s teacher corralling 33 high-strung kids on to a bus for yet another magically funded field trip. She seats Bella (who invariably loses her Frosted Flakes at the first hairpin turn) up front, and gives Ryan (whose special ed aid has called in sick) his favorite audiobook for the long ride and you think: this year Teacher Appreciation Day is going to be different. This incredible woman will know how dearly she is loved.
That was months ago. Now, Teacher Appreciation Day is fast approaching and all you know is that you’re bringing potato salad to the teacher’s lunch.
Don’t despair. No need to reinvent the wheel to bring joy to your teacher’s life. Other parents have gone before you and created insanely heartwarming gifts that will send an unforgettable message to the rock star in your child’s classroom.
The secret to a great teacher appreciation gift?
1. Keep the focus on what teachers invariably say they appreciate. The most cherished gifts are those involving expressions of gratitude: a thoughtful note or a scrapbook (the tokens and hefty gift cards that show you’ve noticed what this teacher needs or enjoys also hit home).
2. Get collaborative. Sound complicated? It doesn’t have to be. Group gifting used to be the provenance of SuperParents, but these crowdsourced ideas from GreatSchools parents offer ideas ranging from pricy to free, elaborate to drop-dead simple.
Beyond well-wishes: WooHoo!
Recently, Jeannie Elmstrom’s fourth grade daughter was looking for ways to celebrate her teacher’s 10th teaching anniversary. She started a WooHoo! page, a site dedicated to celebrating individuals by invited loved ones to upload well-wishes and photos. “Pretty soon we had the most glorious, heartwarming page… with thanks and praise for this amazing teacher,” Elstrom recalls. See an example for Ms. Tamar at Ocean Charter School in California, whose response to the gift was simply: “Best. Gift. Ever.”
Cost: Free (with keepsake book $25-45)
Organizing time: A few hours to start page, invite parents, and email reminders.
Lead time: One week.
There’s nothing quite like a customized book to take photos, drawings, stories, and sentiments and preserve them as memories. But many busy parents — recalling the yearbooks of yesteryear — will balk at the idea of organizing such a multifaceted project. But with Book Creator — an app that works on iPad or Android — you can collaborate on a book quickly and easily without so much as a single meeting. And since it’s truly an e-book, you can add audio and video along with photos and text.
Want to create something especially enticing? Ask each student’s family to upload or email you a recipe and a picture of their child to create a cookbook. Deliver it with one of the dishes and you’ve got a gift the teacher can savor today and decades hence.
Cost: Free – $4.99 (depending on the version)
Organizing time: A few hours to start the book, send out communication, and pull the book together at the end.
Lead time: One week.
Kids say the darnedest things
Why do teachers teach? Is it the smell of freshly minted textbooks from Pearson or debates over Common Core Standards? Naw, we all know it’s the kids.
So why not help preserve memories of those cuties forever? Rak Bhalia filmed each student in his daughter’s fourth grade class as they answered a series of questions about their teacher including, “What does she say when she’s not happy about your behavior?” and “What super power would she have and how would she use it?” He then edited the answers together, making sure to represent each child.
This custom documentary delivers a collaborative wallop of love and gratitude, but avoids a lot of adult collaboration — which some parents may be too exhausted to tackle. (Bhalia recruited one parent to help ask the questions as he filmed.) It also lets kids show their appreciation in their own words, often unwittingly proving that even the seeming space cadets are careful observers of their beloved teacher.
Organizing time: A week to film kids at recess and lunch and then five hours to edit their responses together.
Lead time: A few days to plan questions and plan.
Speaking from the heart: Life on Record
If you’re concerned that high-tech collaboration may not fly, then consider the collaborative gift that uses nothing but a telephone. Life on Record offers a toll-free number that allows people to call in and leave stories and well-wishes for a teacher. Seven years ago, Shannon DeShambo organized the creation of a CD for her daughter’s kindergarten teacher. After listening to it with her class, the teacher had “tears rolling down her cheeks over the biggest smile I had ever seen,” says DeShambo. This tool is especially useful for veteran teachers since you can involve far-flung former students. The tool then allows you to edit the audio clips and present them via multiple forms, including smartphone, USB drive, or custom CD.
Organizing time and skills: A couple of hours to invite people and then edit their responses together.
Lead time: A week or two.
The mind-body correction
Can’t deal with new-fangled technology? Consider the chill-pill package. The spa weekend, massage series, or extended yoga pass can sooth the dedicated but stressed-out educator who needs some me-time after a year of “Oh me, me, me! Teacher, me!” Parents also seem to instantly grock this (maybe on the logic that a relaxed teacher is a better teacher). Wrap the gift certificate in a fresh washcloth and a chunk of lemon verbena soap and presto! You’ve got a teacher who knows just how appreciated she is.
Cost: $50 or more
Organizing time: A couple of hours (spread out) to gather money and come to agreement.
Lead time: Two weeks.