One way to resolve sibling conflict

Carol Lloyd, Executive Editor of GreatSchools and mother of two, challenged her daughters to try "blueprinting" to solve their conflict.
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Her daughters don’t acknowledge it, but “blueprinting” their differences worked!

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Why do you want your kids to get along? Because of the long-lasting and long-term effects.

How you can help your children grow up to be best friends.

Signs that the rivalry between your kids has turned into abuse.

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