Learn more about raising kids with grit:
- Video: 3 ways to raise a kid who won’t quit
- Infographic: The science of gritty kids
- Video: Kids with character — Grit
- Can a kid have too much grit?
“In our family, we have something that we call the hard thing rule and it goes like this. Everybody in our family, including Mom and Dad, have to do a hard thing. Something that requires practice so that you can get better gradually over time. The second thing is that you have to finish what you begin. If you start the track season, you have to finish the track season. If I pay the tuition bill for your viola classes, you’re going to finish that semester. The third part of the hard thing rule preserves my child’s autonomy and that is nobody gets to pick your hard thing but you. Yes, you have to practice. Yes, you have to finish what you began but you’re in charge of picking what that hard thing is.”