John Duffy: When your child says, “I hate you!”

“Usually when a child says this … they mean something different," says psychologist John Duffy, author of The Available Parent. Here's how to read between the lines.

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when your child is so hurtful.

Christine Carter Christine Carter: Whatever you do, don’t escalate an already dramatic situation.

Madeline Levine Madeline Levine:  Disagreeing is okay but don’t tolerate disrespect.

Erica Reischer Erica Reischer: There’s a difference between feelings and behavior.

Richard Weissbourd Richard Weissbourd: Model how to behave in tough moments like these.

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